Dating relationship romance ukraine
During this period everything went well except for two things. She was not comfortable holding hands in public and kissing in public the entire trip. She gave me simple thank you kisses after I purchased something.
There was never a passionate kiss or any private time or intimacy the entire trip.
My feeling is that you are probably being taken for a ride by this girl and you should set your sights upon an older lady (suggest absolute maximum gap of 15 years between you), and as you are a professional man you should be able to attract an similary educated partner with at least a basic English usage.
Forget trhis one, but don't abandon all hope, there are some lovely Ukrainian ladies out there.
I returned home feeling very bad that I either do not understand basic human nature (desire for intimacy) and the Ukrainian culture (maybe it is not for me).
Or, maybe I was used for fun and gifts by this girl and her Interpreter. In the end I spent a lot of time and money and feel we are compatible and many ways EXCEPT for romance and money. She wants to continue getting to know me and says she wants me as her husband. Her mother was nice but later said our age difference was too great.
After I left she spilled tea on it and burned it up, she felt so bad and was afraid I was going to be upset. She then went on to tell me she had been saving for a car one day, but she needed to talk to me she used that money to buy another computer and would not take money from me to pay for the replacement.
They are focused on marriage and have been brought up in the spirit of the classic family values, have a good education and manners. I explained that affection and romance were very important to me as discussed earlier in email and chat.The second thing that bothered me was her expectation that I "win" her heart by spending time and money on her with entertainment, going to the spa, many gifts not only for her but also for her sister and parents.Secondly, I can confirm a reluctance for Ukrainian women to kiss and hold hands in public when the relationship is still in its infancy. Thirdly, I am not aware that there is a cultural expectation that you must bestow gifts upon the family of this girl.Fourthly if you are dependant upon a translator to communicate with your lady you are severely disadvantaged.