Funny dating rituals
Sure, the rituals of modern mating look very different to those of our ancestors.
"Nevertheless, the same sexual strategies used by our ancestors operate today with unbridled force," as the psychologist David Buss put it in (2003).
That didn't really bother Mia, since Josh's personality more than made up for it.
Still, he wasn't her usual "type" — the type that was much younger than her, plus athletic and handsome to boot.
My hunch is that women's and men's choices might never completely converge.
The key difference is likely to come down to the demands of breastfeeding following the birth of a child — an activity that's energy-intensive, time-consuming, and quite difficult to integrate with paid work, at least as work is currently structured.
Men, meanwhile, are mostly concerned about a woman's fertility, for which beauty and youth serve as helpful cues.
In the distant past, this behavior was adaptive, and so evolution selected and encoded it in our genes, .
As recently as the 1980s, female flight attendants in the United States could be fired if they got married, and women's right to vote wasn't universally enforced in Switzerland until 1990.The results from the research are clear: Mating preferences among men and women look increasingly similar.The trend is directly tied to increasing gender equality, as women gain greater access to resources and opportunities in business, politics, and education.Regrettably, traditional gender roles persist even in very egalitarian societies.In one Danish study, husbands whose wives out-earned them were more likely than other husbands to use erectile dysfunction medication.