Husband joins dating website
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Granted I was hurt because I was stressed as well dealing with my father’s sudden medical condition and him later passing away. “He said I don’t want to jeopardize my family I learned my lesson baby i’m sorry”…I want to believe him and we never had problems like this until 2010.
I tried my best to hold everything in but I also found out he was signing up for those websites to meet other women. Now its to the point of damn what am I doing wrong as a woman?
So Eventually I grew tired of it and called him out on his bullshit. I know i’m not a size “2” hell i’m 5’5 and right now a good 207.
When we met I was what 165 hell that was back in 06 though and my weight was never an issue…every time we have an issue like this I think about everything that went down and its like what the hell…am i boring?