Married dating blogs
So we decided to not have any contact with each other (really his idea).
I realized that this was the best thing for us to do and we’ll see what's going to happen. I got **** off and went on a dating site and clicked on the first good looking guy on the first page. Meantime bf calls me on Saturday letting me know some unimportant event.
Next day I meet this new guy and we spend a whole day together, I'm having fun when I get a text from bf, just one word something means between when we went on holiday. I know already that he won't be able to handle not seeing me until August.
Next day, Monday, around 4pm, I'm getting bombed with 2 sad voice notes on my phone. I can’t see you or hear your voice, and I won’t be able to last until August without you!
I told him then that I want to move on and try to date.
He should think about trying to really work on his marriage and not leaving his wife.
One good thing happened in this past 2 weeks is that he talked to his sister about leaving his wife since nobody on his side knew anything about me.
She is helping him, and he told his wife that he wants to sell the house to downsize, since their kids have left home I'm actually having a very hard time because she still does not suspect anything. Then we tried, well, actually he tried, to break up with me.
He is having a very hard time to break it to his wife that he just wants out.
I don't want to push him away and I don't want to say the wrong words to him. He has always been 100% honest with me, and he is just doing the things he thinks needs to be done before he tells her it's really over, like settling the financial issues.
So I'm not sure, how long it will be dragged on...sit back till how long.??
However, he really is in love with me, so can he really forget me and move on, pretending he likes being with her as much as he loved being with me?
This is not a flame we have, it would have died down long ago.